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In society, there are many cautionary children's tales. Some are nursery
rhymes, some are poems, maybe some are more elaborate like stories and folklore
and myths, but these cautionary tales, they exist that children will remember
them not just in the time of childhood but all the way into adulthood. Whether
it's Humpty Dumpty, the three little pigs, our little red riding hood, they are
to exist in the repository of our minds not just to entertain us but to teach
us. As a result of Humpty Dumpty, we know that not all problems can be fixed.
Or from the three little pigs, we know that you must have a good foundation in
life to weather life's trials. Or from little red riding hood, we learn to
listen to trusted adults and not stray from their instruction. It was this
straying and listening to the wolf that led little red riding hood to fall for
the wolf's ultimate trap. This text before us is not fictional like the stories
I just mentioned, but it is a cautionary tale written by a father to his son,
telling him that unjust gain will lead to ruin. Or as I wrote it for you, gain
is given by God and not taken by men. In our text, Solomon tells his son to
listen to him and his wife, and if he does this, then he will have rewards.
He'll have a crown for his head and jewelry for his neck. But if he tries to
gain wealth by listening to sinners and taking from others, it would lead to
his own death. Solomon outlines that his son should listen to truly gain, that
he should deny the invitation to take and that he should know the consequences
for taking. So Solomon writes to us that we would know that gain is given by
God, not taken by men. And so this will serve as our outline this morning.
Listen to gain, deny the invitation to take and know the consequences for
taking. Let's look at our first point. Listen to gain. Look at me at verse
eight. Solomon calls out to his son, hear my instruction and do not let go of
your mother's teaching. To hear is a verb that means more than just listening.
In the Old Testament, it often had a connotation of obedience that tied to it.
It was more than just remembering his father's instruction or remembering his
mother's teaching. It was actually living out what he had been taught. Solomon
tells his son if he wants to know honor and wealth, it will come from
obedience, not anywhere else. There are many scriptures that teach us to obey
our parents. In the Old Testament and the New Testament, there's about 20
commands to this end teaching us that if we obey our parents, then it will go
well with us. Parents are the primary means of discipleship in the home. Not
just speaking their opinions on what their child should do or should not do,
biblically speaking, parents are to teach God's word to their children. It is
this teaching that would dictate godly gain in their lives. It is a life based
on God's word, his commands and his precepts that would lead to life. There is
a sense that God has given parents to children that they would be God's
mouthpiece so that they would listen and obey and find good success. Those who
are parents in this room, I ask you this, based on what you've heard, what are
you teaching your children? Are you teaching them the way of life? Are you
teaching them the Bible? Are you teaching them what God says? Who he is, what
he's done, what he will do, what he's commanded? Or are you teaching them
something else? The Bible always comes back to a place of telling us that
wisdom is found with God, that success is found with God. If you look to him,
know him and obey him, this is the path to godly gain. Children or even adults
in this room, you must reflect on what you have been taught to succeed in life.
Is the standard that you've been taught in accordance with the scriptures? Does
it actually say what the Bible says? Or have you maybe been taught that to
succeed in life, you should lie and cheat, maybe manipulate? If that's what
you've heard, don't listen to that. That is not the path of success, that is
the path of fools. That is what Solomon here is speaking against. And said
today, would you know the commands of God, the words of God that will lead to
lasting rewards? Most often when we are speaking about gaining, especially in a
reformed evangelical context, will often speak about gaining God and not money
or material wealth. But in this passage and throughout the Proverbs, there is a
sense that obedience is the path to blessing, both spiritually and materially.
Given the false teaching of the prosperity gospel, we can be shy to say that
this is the connotations of this text, fearing that we will somehow promote
finances over faith. For those of you who do not know what the prosperity
gospel is, it is also known as the health and wealth gospel. It is a religious
belief that financial success and physical health are always God's will for the
faithful. It teaches that believers can claim these blessings through strong
faith, positive thinking and generous financial donations for religious causes.
As I say this. What I'm about to say and what the scriptures are saying here is
not that. I am not promoting this kind of teaching. Remember to last week where
I said. The book of Proverbs gives us the rule, not the exception. The often
rule in the Proverbs is that the faithful, obedient servant will reap his
reward. But the exception to this rule is found in the book of Job, where a
faithful servant was obedient, was diligent, but still suffered greatly. We
must see, though, the text leans towards the fact that blessing is for those
who are obedient. The text does not tell us what the blessings are or what they
will be explicitly, but we are to know that there is a reward, that there is
some form of honor or adornment given to the obedient son or daughter. Solomon
wants us to know that the path to gain is given by God to the obedient son or
daughter. It cannot be taken. Throughout the Bible, we read of a generous God
giving to his people. And at each point where he gives, whether in the garden,
the wilderness or even in the church age, God's people think that God is
holding out on them. Instead of enjoying what he has been that he's given them
and obeying what he has commanded of them, we try to make our own path to gain.
In this place is when we can turn to other voices thinking that they will lead
us to life. There are many gurus of this age that promote wealth advancement.
And what we must ask about these voices is by what standard are they finding
their teaching? Are they calling us to join Ponzi schemes or by selling goods
that nobody needs or by some standard of scamming? Or is it by faithful,
prudential hard work that leads to lasting results? Given the economy that we
live in, we can be easily wooed by these siren songs, telling us that this is
where success is found, forgetting the path that the scriptures have provided.
It is by being faithful with little that we are entrusted with much. It is by
being good stewards of our gifts and talents that leads to lasting growth.
There isn't a shortcut. We know in life that anything worth doing is difficult.
But that saying and that truth really is hard to believe when life is not what
we expect it to be. When life is difficult, when it's not as lavish as the
internet tells us it should be, we are tempted to pursue shortcuts to take gain
instead of believing the lot that God has given us is good and right at this
time. What I'm teaching here does not undercut effort. Instead, it submits
ourselves to God, trusting and obeying Him. Because the scriptures tell us at
the right time He will exalt us. Whether that exaltation comes in this life or
in the life to come, we do not know. But the simple truth at this point is to
simply listen and obey our God, knowing that this is the path to true lasting
gain. For the child and the adult in this room, these verses serve both as a
warning and a call. To listen, to listen afresh, to know that the path to
success is found in obedience to God's command and what He has given. So may we
listen to gain. Let's move to our second point, deny the invitation to take. So
Solomon has called his son to listen. But now he tells him to deny the
invitation to take. Look at me at verses 10 to 14. Solomon's next piece of
advice is to deny the invitation to take. To deny the warm whispers to sin. The
sinners call out to his son, say, come take lives with us just for fun. Let us
go and steal and take all this treasure and store it up in our houses. Let us
be uber rich and store up all that we have actually in one wallet together and
we'll be so rich. What we must see is that all of these actions revolve around
taking. These tempters are speaking about taking lives and taking possessions.
And is this taking that is in contradiction with God's law? This is the words
of sinners, those who disobey God. And what they will do is invite you to take
that which is not yours. As I read these verses or as read them earlier, you
may be tempted right now to think that this passage is not for us. That this is
not for my children, it's not for myself. I don't commit crimes. This is a
passage maybe for gangsters and thugs to know and reform. Though you and your
children might not fall prey to these exact forms of taking like theft or more
murder, does not mean that you're not tempted to take just like you just like
myself. What about working jobs where the ethics of the company is skewed,
where it's no longer about the benefit of the customer or client, but it's
become about purely profits at all costs. There are still businesses today that
exist and their practices are exploiting laborers, pursuing success at the
expense of justice and truth. And we can see that these possessions of power
are good because maybe they come with prestige or wealth. To work and live in
an underhanded way is the posture of taking. It might look and sound more
sterile than the passage here, but it is still the greed for unjust gain at
work. Let us think also beyond goods. Think of the temptation to take someone
down a peg by false testimony. Or think about taking somebody captive in your
imagination and lusting after them. As you consider even the Ten Commandments
in short, you can see that many of the prohibitions there are saying for us not
to take. The temptation to take is all around us. And there are many even
promoting these practices, giving license to sin. And so the question becomes
not if this is taking place or if this is applicable. The question is more so
where and when is it taking place? Where are the people, maybe some friends or
family that are calling you to sin and take? To take something that isn't
yours. It could be taking somebody's honor by bullying or gossiping. You might
not be taking their life, but you are taking their reputation. God has called
us to encourage and honor, to be charitable, not to take and not to tear down.
It could be that you are taking credit for something that you didn't actually
do. Friends, this is still theft, just at a lower scale. These temptations to
take are ones that we experience every day, just at lesser gravity, but still
with the same severity. In the garden, God the Father spoke to Adam and Eve,
telling them the path to life. It was by enjoying God and what he has given.
But what they were to do is not eat of one tree, the tree of the knowledge of
good and evil. Instead of hearing this command and seeing that it was good,
they were enticed by the serpent. They were convinced that God was somehow
holding out on them. Instead of listening to gain, they took of the tree,
spiraling themselves and the rest of humanity into death. The call to Adam and
Eve was to deny the invitation to sin, but they gave in to the tempter. Just as
Adam and Eve were to deny the invitation, so are we called today to not give
consent to these temptations. It is better, church, to flee than to give in.
Think of Joseph's and Potiphar's wife in Genesis 39. If you don't know this
story, Joseph is the second youngest son of Jacob, the patriarch. He was sold
into slavery by his brothers because they hated him. They hated him because he
was the favorite son. As he is sold into slavery, he finds himself in this sort
of mid-peak of his career. He is working for a chief official in Egypt named
Potiphar. He became almost second command to Potiphar. In this place of
authority, he was tempted by Potiphar's wife. She tried to entice him to sleep
with her. Instead of sinning, he fled. He ran. He knew that this would be
sinned against Potiphar and ultimately that this would be sinned against the
Lord. So he didn't take. He denied the invitation. The story goes on that
Potiphar's wife actually ends up framing him for denying her and he gets thrown
into jail. But despite that, God was still with him and he ends up becoming
second in command to Pharaoh, saving his brother and father, brothers and
father from famine. If you don't know this story, I encourage you to read it in
your own time. But we are seeing the principle at work here to deny the
invitation to sin. The application of this point is to deny the invitation to
be aware of the temptation to take. But also, this point makes us wonder, who
are we surrounding ourselves with? What is your company and the people that are
speaking into your life? Are they maybe encouraging you to sin? Are they trying
to entice you? The scriptures teach elsewhere that bad company corrupts good
morals. The people we spend time with are going to be the voices we listen to,
whether that's on the Internet, TV or even in family. They have a way of
forming us. And the question we must ask is, are they encouraging us to virtue
or vice? So it must be watchful of who we even spend time with. What we listen
to with these voices, are they coming to entice you? What we should see and
hear is the advice of Solomon today to deny the invitation to take. So may we
do that? Lastly, would we know the consequences for taking? Let's look at our
last point. Solomon tells his son where success is found. It's found in
listening and obeying. Secondly, it's in denying the invitation to take. And
lastly, he outlines the consequences for taking. What happens if you turn to
short term gain and take? Look at me at verses 15 to 19. Solomon says, to not
walk in their way, to not walk in the way of these sinners. Walking, if you
remember from our study of Colossians, means to live. It means don't live like
them. Don't go down that path. Hold yourself back from that lifestyle. He goes
on to say, because they live for evil. They live to take lives. Unlike the
people of Colossians, they live for evil. Unlike birds who can see a trap under
their feet and can fly away the wicked or not so. They fall for their own
traps. They laid ambushes for other people, and that was ultimately the way
that they are caught. There's an old adage that you are familiar with, I'm
sure, that if you live by the sword, you will die by the sword. Those who are
greedy for unjust gain, their lives will be taken by their actions. This is
what Solomon says in these last few verses. Is as though their plots and their
schemes are laying the foundation for their own downfall. You can think of
maybe some mobster or gangster movie. The tactics that this mobster or gangster
uses is what's being used against them. From these verses, what we see is that
there are consequences for living a life of taking. And the consequences, the
taking of your own life, it is death. There are countless examples of this in
the scriptures. That the people of God, when they live and take, they will
experience death. We read this all throughout the prophets, both major and
minor. We read of God's judgment to those who are cheating, extorting, using
and taking. God repays them what they are owed. He judges them according to
their unrepentant sin. Or even think of this, think of the disciple who
betrayed Jesus for 30 silver coins. He sold out the innocent to gain. But in
the end, he didn't enjoy his spoil. He instead knew death. The scriptures tell
us that the wages of sin is death. That sin has a payday. And what it pays out
in is death. There may be short-term gain, but in the long run, your sin will
find you out. This is what Solomon says here and what Paul says in Romans 6.23.
In 1 Corinthians 6.9-10, Paul says, Neither will the sexually immoral, the
idolaters, the adulterers, the thieves, the greedy, the drunkards, the
revilers, nor the swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. There is a
posture in which God must cleanse us and change us from these sins. We cannot
obey our way into heaven. That is not what this scripture is teaching and or
the counsel of God teaches. Paul goes on to say in 1 Corinthians, So were some
of you, but you were washed by the blood of Christ. We cannot stay in obstinate
sin. We can't live lives of taking. And some will think that in the end, that
we're going to actually have true success. The consequence will be death. But
the opposite is true. We can't just somehow tie ourselves by the bootstraps and
obey our ways into heaven. That's just not the truth. We must repent and turn
to God and faith. The reality is that we all have walked the path of the
sinner. We have all taken to some degree. But to leave this path and to turn
from this path, we must take Solomon's advice, his advice to listen. And we
must listen to the words of Christ by whom we truly gain. The greatest gain in
life and in life to come is eternal life. It is not something that we can take
for ourselves. It must be given as a gift by God through faith in Jesus Christ.
Jesus Christ is the truly obedient son who never fell prey to the enticing of
sinners, whether in his temptation in the wilderness with Satan or the other
times with his disciples who were even encouraging him towards disobedience to
the Father. His foot did not stray. He was obedient to the point of death on a
cross. Though those who were greedy for unjust gain put him to death, he did
not stay dead. He rose to newness of life after three days so that we, a people
prone to taking, who were unjust would be made just. By him taking on the
consequences for our sins, we by faith are made righteous so that we can be
obedient now, knowing rightful gain today and forever. The church would you
listen today? Even if you already have believed in Jesus, listen afresh to the
good news of Jesus Christ, the savior of sinners, so that we would listen and
obey and be with him. Be right with him. Seeing afresh that gain is given by
God and is not taken by man. If you've yet to believe, my hope for you today is
that you would have ears to hear, eyes to see, and hearts to believe that Jesus
Christ is Lord. That is in him and by him that you can know true gain, both in
this life and the life to come. That you cannot do this your own way trying to
take. That way will only lead to death. Instead, would you turn today believing
in Jesus Christ that you would know life and life everlasting? Let us pray.