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While studying for this week's sermon, one commentator mentioned the bystander
effect. The bystander effect is the social psychological theory that states
that people are less likely to offer help to another person in the presence of
a crowd. The theory is based off a murder that took place in 1964 where it said
that 37 bystanders saw and heard the attack but did not come to the assistance
of the victim or call the police. Though there are studies that have sought to
disprove this social phenomenon, we do still see that we are a society that is
prone to defer responsibility. Thinking that somebody else will call the
police, somebody else might pull over on the highway and help a person in need
as they're stranded, somebody else will wash the dishes, somebody else will
clean the toilet, you name it, there's more often than not, we are happy to
pass the buck and be a bystander. This is more than just heard mentality, this
is heard apathy. And throughout the Bible we are called out of our apathy into
action. And this is not just a behavior of non-Christians, this is also the
behavior of Christians. In our humanity we are people that are programmed for
passivity. But God calls us to participation. In this passage we see the
Apostle Paul calling the Church of Colossae to mission, to God's mission. And
when it comes to participating in God's mission in the world, we can so easily
fall prey to the bystander effect. Thinking somebody else will do evangelism,
somebody else will care for the needs of the needy, someone else will do the
deed or say the words, but it's probably not me. And even as a pastor, I can so
easily succumb to my passive proclivities. In this passage this call to
participate in God's mission is not just for clergy, it is for all Christ
followers. In these four verses Paul urges that we are called to participate in
God's mission. And we participate in God's mission in two actions, in watchful
prayer and in wise witness. And this will serve as our outline this morning,
you can follow along in the back middle portion of your bulletin to take notes.
Let's look at our first point, watchful prayer. Paul here is at the tail end of
his letter as I mentioned earlier. And it's common even in our communication
patterns to maybe put some less important information or actually to put
information that requires a response. In our emails we'll say, based on what I
said above, would you please do X or maybe respond with Y? And I believe this
is what Paul is doing in his letter. He is asking for the people to do a
personal ask. He is asking for them to respond. And what he asked for is how he
began this letter. He asked for prayer. Paul says, I prayed for you, now would
you pray for me? But Paul is with the Lord now, so we do not need to pray for
him as the Church of Colossae did. We are instructed on how to pray for one
another and how we are to pray for public witness. Or another way to say this
is that we pray for one another and how to pray for the world. Paul tells us
that we are to continue steadfastly in prayer, to stay the course to devoted
prayer, this unshakable kind of prayer, the kind of prayer that can't stop and
won't stop. This is the prayer that's rooted in the confidence that God hears
what we are saying. But also is confident that we need God in every
circumstance. It holds together confidence that God hears and that we need God.
Paul calls the Church of Colossae to this ongoing, vigilant prayer. To be
watchful in prayer, as Paul says, giving thanks to God, thanking him for
answered requests. So often we are fearful to pray or so preoccupied with
ourselves that we don't have eyes to see that God has answered our pleas. The
kind of praying that Paul encourages in verse two is one that also looks out
for answered prayer but also looks to how to pray for others. To be attentive
to the needs of the saints, to uphold them in prayer. We want to be a church
that models this. Who wants to pray for one another, not just once a week in
the family of the week that's good, maybe continue to do so, but asking one
another and looking to one another, how can I pray for you brother or sister?
Whether it be for their marriage or their work, for their unbelief that's
creeping in their heart, for their health, or maybe for some of the younger
saints for their education. You pray for them as they interact with those
people or those other students at school. You name it. We have the privilege of
drawing near to God as children to ask our Father simply, earnestly, and
confidently knowing that our Father in heaven hears us and cares for us. He
might not act the way that we'd like him to in every circumstance, but we can
trust that he is acting for our good and his glory. Church, we want to be a
house of prayer. Jesus in the gospels goes into the synagogue, flips tables,
and he says, my Father's house is to be a house of prayer. On the flip side,
the church is to be a place that cries out to God, but the flesh, Satan in the
world will do anything to hinder that. Like making our preferences supreme over
God's command to pray, saying statements like, I don't really feel like
praying, so I won't. Or it feels awkward to publicly pray, so I won't. Or I'm
too young, or I'm too old. God is not in heaven grading our prayers based on
our age or our eloquence. He isn't. He is a Father that delights and wants to
hear from his children. So would we be a people who are willing and wanting to
ask, how can I pray for you? Or can I pray for you? Just right now. And
actually do it. I'm not going to say that it has to happen right then and
there, but how beautiful would it be if it did? How beautiful would it be if it
did? How magnificent would it be that after this sermon, this place broke out
into unceasing prayer, lifting each other up to God, being watchful and
thankful. It'd be beautiful. We not only want to be watchful, praying for one
another, but we also want to pray for those who have yet to believe. Watchfully
praying for the world. Look with me at verse three. Paul asks the saints of
Colossae to pray for an open door to declare the mystery of Christ. This in
many ways, this prayer request that Paul illustrates changes the way that we
think about praying for evangelism. Often we pray, God, would you use me in
this circumstance? Or we pray, would you bring so and so to faith? And not
saying not to pray those prayers, but what Paul illustrates here is a prayer
asking God for the opportunity to share about Jesus. And I would argue not only
praying for the opportunity, but praying that that interaction in that
individual would be receptive to the message of Jesus. Jesus tells us in
Matthew nine that the harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few, meaning
that many are ready to come to faith, and they are ripe for the picking, but
there are few who actually go out and harvest. And if this is true, and I
believe it is, church, we should be emboldened to share about Jesus with the
majority of people we interact with. Praying for open doors to assume that they
are more likely to believe than not. And I think what Jesus says in Matthew
nine is a transcultural and timeless truth, because people are hungry for good
news. They are desperate for identity. They want freedom from guilt and shame.
They're looking for the God shaped hole in their hearts to be filled. In some
shape or form, that is your story, my story, as we are Christians. The gospel
came to you and to me and saved us and changed us. And we're simply asking in
this prayer for God to do it again. God would you do it again? Bring people to
yourself and bring me to people that would be receptive to the good news. The
gospel didn't come to you and me to stop with us. It came so that you and I
would be conduits of the gospel, that it would be going out to the rest of the
world, that others would call in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. As we
watchfully pray for one another and this world, knowing that we have a God in
heaven who is active in our world, who has the the king's heart in his hand and
he moves it wherever he pleases. And so we can pray for leaders, we can pray
for one another, we can pray boldly knowing that God can change lives and he
does. And so we pray to the Lord of the harvest. People far and wide, big and
small would come to believe in Jesus. This week I had hoped to have these
invitations for our Easter services printed. This morning you might have seen
your email already where I sent you a digital version. Over the coming weeks I
invite you to send that invitation to people or to pick up the physical
invitation this coming week that it would begin a conversation with somebody
about Jesus. Pray preemptively that God would lead you to someone who would be
receptive and I believe that he will. This does not mean that every person that
you think of or that you approach will hear you out. That's simply unrealistic.
But from these prayers and these scriptures it points to a posture that is
hopeful and engaged instead of cynical and passive. God has called us to
participate in this mission and this begins with watchful prayer for one
another and the world. And as I say this, some of you are like, well Jim I do
this. I already do pray for other people at our church. I already do pray for
opportunities to share the gospel. And to you I say continue to do so brother
or sister. And my encouragement to you is encourage others to do the same. How
amazing would it be that the application of this sermon would be a prayer
meeting that we would gather as a church praying for one another and praying
that God would save the lost. That is the right response to what Paul is saying
right here in Colossians. And church, would we want to respond in such a way
calling out to our God because he is faithful and true. Missions doesn't end
with prayer. It is just the beginning. And this leads us to our second point.
It leads us to witness, a wise witness. Look at me at verses 5 and 6. Here we
are called to witness in wisdom. This is both a call to obedience as seen in
Ephesians 5. As Paul calls for pure speech, for sobriety, for thoughtful
living. Wisdom is not just morality but it is also judicial in knowing how to
apply one's knowledge to a situation. Wisdom is the ability to use our
knowledge and employ it correctly. Many of you are experts in many fields. And
just because you know those ideas or truths doesn't mean that it is to be
applied in every single situation. You have particular solutions or particular
words that are used in particular circumstances. And to a wise witness, it is
employing knowledge prudently and correctly. It is not just knowing the right
things, it is utilizing it correctly. To walk in wisdom towards the outsider is
knowing how to live among those who are not Christians. And for most of us,
that walking in wisdom is everywhere and every day except for being at church
or maybe in your home. The question is, do we make the best use of our time in
all those different circumstances? Time is the one resource in life that is
truly finite. You cannot make more of it. What Paul calls us to hear is to
purpose our lives well among those who do not know Jesus. That we would
intentionally seek to live in a way that uses our most precious asset, most
precious asset well, time. We are limited on time. One day we will be out of
time. But the time that you and I have on earth with those who do not know
Jesus, how will we use it? Will we use it well or will we squander it? This
does not mean that every conversation that you or I have with an unbeliever
needs to begin with. Well, have you met my friend Jesus? That's not what Paul
is saying here. That's not what I'm saying here this morning. Paul tells us in
verse 6 what this wisdom in conversation and in life should look like. It
begins with our words. Our words are to be gracious, seasoned with salt,
answering the other person well. Meaning that our words are being beneficial,
doing a work of undeserved benefit towards that individual. That the words are
flavoring the conversation, that the preserving life, presenting truth, just
like salt does with food. Our words are not called to be weapons. You and I do
not need to be the people that drop truth bombs. That's the business of
influencers. Even them, I don't think that they should be living that way. We
are called to a form of speech that is forthcoming, yes, truthful, that is
beneficial and beautiful. Knowing how to answer each person is truly an art
form. And some of you are like, I don't know if I know that art. But as we
pray, as we ask God to fill us and lead us, I trust that he will give you the
words to say in those circumstances. But so often we think God will not or that
we should not speak and so we simply restrain ourselves. But at times where we
do speak, we speak maybe rashly or quickly or flippantly. Having our lack of
wisdom, our lack of grace, our lack of knowledge. Paul is calling us to witness
as if our words were a wonderful meal. That they were this meal that set forth
that is tasty, that is good, that is nourishing, that the things that you have
to say are the best of your table. And even if they're not, just simply giving
people what you have can be beneficial to them. Can be beneficial to the
outsider. The meal does not need to be expensive to be good. Think about your
tables. You don't have to use the five dollar words of sanctification and
glorification and justification. You don't need to do that. You can simply use
the ingredients that God gives you that are on hand to flavor your speech, to
nourish your hearers with what you are saying. Not talking past them, but
talking to them. Not making assumptions or presumptions, leading to lengthy
arguments that weren't even mentioned in the conversation. Instead, we are to
wisely witness by speaking to the person that God leads us to. That we had
addressed them in dignity, wanting for their betterment, not in a posture of
condescension. Just trying to give them your best ten minute meal. And if that
looks like your words are Uncle Ben's and some broccoli and it's just very
simple, may it be a benefit to those who hear you. God doesn't need our
eloquence in witness. He just wants our obedience. Everything can feel like
it's for super Christians. That it's the job of the pastor, that it's the job
of the elders, it's the job of the deacons. But the rest of us do not need to
do that. What we see here is that Paul is talking to the whole church of
Colossae. He's calling for them to participate in God's mission. Calling the
illiterate and the literate, calling the affluent and the needy, calling the
officers and the members, the children and the adults to pray and to witness.
And in this we are simply partaking in what God is already doing. Evangelism is
joining a conversation that God is already having. We believe that God is
saving people. He is leading people to Himself to repent and believe. And we
are simply to witness to what God is doing and has done. God doesn't need us to
be lawyers defending Him. We are simply called to witness. That our lives among
outsiders would be reflective of the change that has taken place that we have
experienced as a result of the gospel. Having experienced who God is and the
personal work of Jesus Christ, you're simply called to share your experience,
to share the simple knowledge that you already have. If somebody asks you a
question and you don't know the answer to it, it's okay to say, I don't know.
Being individuals who are honest in evangelism and in witness is part of
wisdom. Wisdom knows that it does not need to pretend. Wisdom knows to be
measured. Wisdom knows that God is the one who changes lives, not us. And so it
can take the weight off. We are simply called to witness. When asking one of my
mentors what was the biggest lesson that he has learned in his many years of
ministry, he said to me, Jim, each year I learn more and more that I have such
a small part in lives being changed. It's not up to me. I'm simply called to be
faithful. And that's a message to us, not just pastors, to be faithful with our
lives. Stop putting undue pressure on ourselves for the results. But we are
called, as Paul tells us to, or Paul says elsewhere, some will be called to
plant, some will be called to water, but it is God who gives us growth. So even
as we prayed this morning, we are called to patience for the results. Somebody
might respond quickly to you sharing the gospel with them. Some might be
resistant. Some might take years to be like that person, you are right. Jesus
is Lord. We are simply called to be faithful where God has placed you, whether
at work or the coffee shop, at school or the gym, at the store or at the park.
Would we be willing to be faithful with our time and the people that God has
entrusted us with? Looking for open doors and that we would simply just walk
through it. Trying to give some, these people beneficial conversation that will
benefit them and enrich them. And I don't say all of this to neglect good
works, being a good Samaritan. I say this in addition, taking care of people's
physical needs and spiritual needs. This action of walking and wisdom is both
words and deeds. I've been told as I've been in bed for just for a little
while, the people around us, there's not many marginalized individuals who need
things or need meals in our part of the city. And just because they are not
needing for a meal doesn't mean that they are not spiritually needy. The people
around us, regardless of how affluent they are or how affluent they are not,
they are people without a shepherd. Living in darkness, not knowing what they
were created for, that they were created for life with God now and forever. And
we are simply called to present to them these truths, that they would know God,
that they would obey Him and follow Him. You've heard over the last few weeks,
me mention that our church is to be a city on a hill. And quite literally, we
are a building that's perched on a hill, giving light and life to whomever
walks through our doors. But may we also go out that people would have light
wherever you go so that they don't simply just have to come to us in this
building, that they would know Christ wherever you go. What would it look like
for us as a church to maybe corporately go across to DeWolf Park and witness
there? That people would know Jesus. The world sure might need some wealth,
might need some food, might need some better policy, but ultimately what this
world needs and what our community needs is the good news of Jesus Christ. And
so may this text take us to both corporate and personal evangelism. Each of us
are presented with opportunities at school or work in the grocery store among
family that I as your pastor, I'm not privy to. So would you and I make the
best use of our time? The temptation with a sermon like this is to simply brush
it off and continue to be a bystander because it's overwhelmingly difficult or
scary to put yourself in a vulnerable position to share about Jesus. I get
that. The temptation will be to continue to be a bystander and think that
somebody else will do it. And church that's that might be true. Somebody else
might do it. But how amazing would it be that we would be a church that chooses
to obey this truth? Not somebody else. God has called you or and equipped you
and sent you to walk in wisdom amongst outsiders making the best use of our
time. The question is, will you squander your time, your gifts and the people?
Will you seek to obey and faith, trusting God for the results? My hope is that
you trust and obey knowing that is our God who is on mission. What I've said
this morning is that we are participating in the mission that God is already on
and our God from the beginning of scripture to the end of scripture points and
reveals to us that he has been on mission to save his people, that he sent his
son, that people would believe in him, that he would die for their sins. And
you and I have a simple time now to emulate our saviour Jesus Christ, to embody
him, reflecting him so others would see him and witness his glory and his
grandeur, that they were spawned with gratitude. But ultimately, it is God who
is working and we are simply called to participate. And so would we trust and
ask and now be emboldened in faith, knowing that God cares, that he loves and
that he goes before you and with you to accomplish his mission to reconcile
sinners to himself. If you take anything away this morning, church, maybe this,
that is God's mission. And he is called all who believe to participate in it.
And so if you have believed, may you participate. If you've yet to believe you
are whom we are speaking to, may you believe and trust in the Lord Jesus
Christ, that you may know him and love him. My prayer is that we will be a
people that know this and obey this. Let us pray.