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chapter 12, verses 13 through 21. Someone in the crowd said to him, teacher,
tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me. But he said to him, man, who
made me judge or arbiter over you? And he said to them, take care and be on
your guard against all covetousness. For one's life does not consist in the
abundance of one's possessions. And he told them a parable saying, the land of
a rich man produced plentifully. And he thought to himself, what shall I do?
For I have nowhere to store my crops. And he said, I will do this. I will tear
down my barns and build larger ones, and I will store my grain and my goods.
And I will say to my soul, soul, you have ample goods laid up for many years.
Relax, eat, drink, be merry. But God said to him, fool, this night your soul is
required of you and the things you have prepared, whose will they be? So as the
one who lays up treasure for himself, it is not rich towards God. Let's pray.
Father, thank you for your word. And pray that you would open our hearts and
minds in Jesus' name, amen. So we've come to the last commandment of the 10,
which is you shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your
neighbor's wife, or his male servant, or his female servant, or his ox, or his
donkey, or anything that is your neighbor's. You shall not covet anything that
is your neighbor's. So what does it mean to covet? I think it's important to
first understand what it isn't. Coveting isn't simply the desire for something
legitimate. For instance, we see that we're not supposed to covet our
neighbor's house, or his wife. Does that mean we're not supposed to desire a
house, or even a nice house? Or when you go visit your neighbor, and they have
a nice house, is it okay to say, boy, I'd really like to have a house like
this? See, that's not coveting. What's coveting would be, I want this house.
Or, suppose your neighbor has an excellent wife, or husband, whatever your
definition of excellent might be. Is he or she honest, hardworking, kind, a
good parent, physically attractive? Is it wrong for you to think, I would love
to have a wife like Fred's? No. What's wrong is if you say, I want Fred's wife.
Or, I would love to have a husband like Judy's husband. Is that wrong? No, it's
wrong to say, I want Judy's husband. Wanting a wife is not coveting. In fact,
the Scriptures tell us it's a good thing. Proverbs 18, 22 says, he who finds a
wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord. Proverbs 31 says, an
excellent wife who can find. She is more precious than Jules. The heart of her
husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. Another thing that
coveting isn't, is it doesn't mean ambition. It's not wrong to desire to
improve your lot in life. As long as you do so honestly, it's perfectly
legitimate to desire to do your job well. Whatever it is, to do your job well,
and to hope that you'll be rewarded for doing your job well. Paul said in
Colossians 3, 23, 24, whatever you do, work hardily as to the Lord, and not for
men, knowing that from the Lord, you'll receive the inheritance as your reward,
you are serving the Lord Christ. In other words, you have a job, you wanna do
it as best you can, or you're a student, and you want to study as best you can,
and then, if you're rewarded, that's a good thing. But you will be rewarded by
God for your hard work, whether you're rewarded by your employer or not. So
coveting isn't simply the desire for good things that God has provided in this
life. A home, a spouse, family, friends, a good job or career, or a good
business. The Proverbs says, God, it is God who makes wealthy, and he adds no
sorrow to it. So what does it mean to covet? Coveting means to have an
inordinate desire for something that belongs to someone else. A house, a wife,
anything that belongs to someone else. Moses says, your neighbor. So what does
it mean? Well, the Apostle John wrote in his first epistle, in 1 John chapter
two, do not love the things of the world. If anyone loves the world, the love
of the Father is not in him. So what he's saying is, if you're putting
something in the world first, the love of the Father isn't in you. He goes on
to say, for all that is in the world, the desires of the flesh, the desires of
the eyes, and pride and possessions is not from the Father, but is from the
world. The world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the
will of God abides forever. That word desires is very interesting. It's
epi-thumea. Epi means over. Thumea is desire. It's like when you hear about an
earthquake, they say the epicenter, epicenter, means the part on the ground, on
the surface of the earth that is directly over the center of the earthquake. So
epi-thumea means over desire. It means a desire that is not legitimate. It
means a desire, even if it's a good thing, it's a desire that controls you.
It's a desire that causes you to lay aside other things. It becomes so much of
a desire that you believe you have to have it. You see your neighbor's wife and
you think, I cannot stand that she is with him. I have to try to get her for
myself. Or you see your neighbor's house and you say, I want that house. I have
to figure out how I can displace my neighbor so I can have their house. That is
what coveting is. And if you don't get it, you will not be happy or satisfied
or content. Now a lot of people, unfortunately, think that coveting is a less
serious sin. I mean, after all, it's last, right? It's 10th. And it does seem
like they, for a while anyway, they're going in order of seriousness. For
instance, it's more serious to kill somebody than to have adultery, but it's
more serious to have adultery than it is to steal. It's more serious to steal
than it is to lie. So it makes sense then you would think that it's more
serious to lie or all the other ones than it is to covet. But that's not the
case. Listen to what Paul says in Colossians chapter three again. He says in
verse five, put to death therefore what is earthly in you. And this is the
list. Sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, that's that word
epithelia, and covetousness. And then he adds, which is idolatry. See, if
you're coveting something, if you want something, if you desire something, more
than you desire God, that is idolatry. And that's what Paul is saying here. He
says that again in Ephesians five, five, for you may be sure of this, that
everyone who is sexually immoral or impure or who is covetous, that is an
idolater, has no inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God and God. Paul
calls covetousness idolatry. And the one who covets is an idolater. And
idolatry is a most serious sin. It's throughout the scriptures, it is
considered the worst of sins. In fact, it is like coveting a sin of the heart.
If you look at the commandments, basically all of them, except the first and
the last, are things that you can see, things that you do, things that can be
seen by other people or understood. If you lie, you can get found out that you
lied. If you steal, somebody knows that something of theirs has been taken.
Adultery, murder, all of these are things that can be seen are things that can
be seen and things we're told not to do or to do like honor your father and
mother. But coveting is in the heart and it can't be seen, it's hidden. The
first commandment is like it as well. You shall have no other gods before me.
Now we can say, of course I have no other gods. But you can say that and still
have an idolatrous heart. The other thing to see is that coveting can lead to
breaking all of the other commandments. Let me explain. What did the serpent
tell Eve that she could be like God? She coveted the wisdom when she saw that
the tree was desirous to make one wise and she had the desire to be like God,
which the serpent told her, you will be like God knowing good and evil. So she
coveted that which she didn't have, which was not legitimate, which she was
tempted to take. Why did Israel make a golden calf? Or why does someone take
God's name in vain? The desire to be your own God arises in your heart and you
covet that which belongs to God. Why does somebody break the Sabbath? Why does
somebody spend their time other than is sanctioned by God on the Lord's day?
Why do they? Because they covet the time for themselves. They think, well, this
time is mine. It's my life. This time is mine. It's my life. It's my time. I
can do what I wish. Not honoring your parents. Murder. Today is right to life
or sanctity of life Sunday. And some people pay attention to those sort of
things and abortion is certainly begins with a sin of covetousness. I covet not
being burdened with a child. I covet not being, if you're the woman, not being
put through the rigors of childbirth. I covet not being found out that I got
pregnant. One of the ministries that we support is Open Door Center. Open Door
Center advises young women who are, have an unplanned pregnancy to have
supportive counseling sessions so that they can determine what they should do.
It's where they're told what the baby actually is, that the baby's a human
being, that the baby has a life separate from them. And that hopefully they
will see that and they will bring the baby to term and adoption can be arranged
for. But certainly killing your baby before it's born is idolatry. Friend of
mine years and years ago, this is while I was at Eastern Michigan University
which is 40 years ago, really more than that. He said abortion is sacrificing
innocent children on the altar of convenience. Which is what it is. Adultery is
coveting somebody else's wife. Stealing is coveting something that belongs to
somebody else. Bearing false witness is, begins with coveting a desired
outcome. And it all comes from a desire to have something that doesn't belong
to you. So you take it. But it begins in the heart. So you can fool other
people that you're not covetous. You can even fool yourself. Paul at one time
believed that he was righteous and even blameless as far as the law was
concerned. But then in Romans seven we read that what shall we say is the law
of sin by no means. Yet it had not been for the law, I would not have known
sin, for I would not have known what it is to covet if the law had not said you
shall not covet. But sin seizing an opportunity through the commandment
produced in me all kinds of covetousness. For apart from the law, sin lies
dead. I once was alive apart from the law, but when the commandment came, sin
came and I died. So Paul, when he's keeping all the other commandments, thought
he was blameless until he understood what it meant to covet. And then he knew
he was guilty and he knew that he couldn't fix it. Paul realized that though he
had appeared righteous and blameless to others and to himself, his heart was
full of coveting and he was an idolater. You see, if you put your hope in
something other than God, when that thing or person or job or whatever it is,
when it comes up short and it always will, you will be devastated. I remember
seeing a story years ago about two young men who had been wrongly convicted of
rape. There were witnesses, there was testimony, they were wrongly convicted.
It just so happened that each of the men, each of the men had families that
claimed to be Christian. And when the one young man was convicted, his mother
came home, she saw her Bible on the table and she picked it up and she threw it
against the wall and she never went back to church. Now, why did she do that?
Because her son or her family's reputation or something else was more important
to her than the Lord. But the other woman, the other mother, went to her knees
and prayed all the more earnestly and she wept, of course. It's not that it
didn't hurt, of course it hurt. But instead of throwing her Bible and refusing
to attend church, she clung even more to the Savior, she prayed even more
earnestly and she prayed with friends every chance she got. See, the trauma
drove her further into the arms of God. Now, both sons were eventually
exonerated by DNA evidence. But you need to know that the things we covet, even
if we get them, they won't satisfy us ultimately. In the Gospel passage we
read, the rich man thinks he has years to live and builds new barns for all his
grain and goods. He says, soul, you have ample goods laid up for many years,
relax, eat, drink, be merry. That's where that saying comes from, eat, drink,
and be merry. But God said, fool, this night your soul's required of you and
all the things you have prepared, whose will they be? So is the one who lays up
treasure for himself and is not rich towards God. Now, Jesus was responding to
the Pharisees and the teachers who were claiming that his followers were not
following the dietary laws such as washing the cups and washing before they
ate. And these other things, and he said to them, take care and be on guard
against all covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of
one's possessions. What does he mean, be on guard against coveting? What are we
guarding? Well, Paul's letter to Timothy, the second one, very shortly before
he died, said, follow the pattern of sound words that you've heard from me in
the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus by the Holy Spirit who dwells
within us. Guard the good deposit within you, entrusted to you. First
Corinthians 16, beyond guard, stand firm in the faith. Be courageous, be
strong, do everything in love. We are to guard our hearts, guard our souls,
from what? From all kinds of covetousness, Jesus said, which is idolatry. So
what do we do? If you look at the commandments, many of them, most of them are
about behavior. Commandments two through nine are about what we are to do or
not do. One and 10 are about the heart. I don't know if you've noticed this,
but it's very difficult to change behavior, especially if it's become a habit.
There are some people who through the force of their will can change their
behavior and make changes in their life. People who've consumed alcohol out of
their life can often with the help of others make the change and not consume it
at all. But we cannot change our heart through commandments. You can't say to
your heart, stop loving what you love and love God instead. You can give lip
service to loving God. Jesus admonished the Pharisees and the teachers for
doing the very same thing. This people honors me with their lips, but their
hearts are far from me. In vain do they worship me. Teaching his doctrines the
commandments of men. So how do we change? Richard Pratt, Old Testament scholar,
wrote a book years and years ago while I was still in the seminary. He wrote a
book and it was called He Gave Us Stories. Because human hearts are not changed
by laws, they're not changed by rules. That's why it's so humorous that, well
humorous isn't the right word, ironic, that whenever there's something going
wrong in the culture, we decide we're gonna make more laws. I lived in Chicago
for 11 years. Chicago has one of the highest murder rates in all of the US,
especially a section of Chicago. They also have more stringent gun laws than
anywhere else. And every round of shooting, they appeal for more gun laws. But
having more gun laws doesn't stop the killing because it doesn't deal with the
heart. Stories change the heart. And it's the story of the gospel of Jesus
Christ that can change your heart. How? We look at it day and night. That's
what we do with our worldly loves. I mean, if you think about the things that
you love, you think about them all the time. There's an old song, When a Man
Loves a Woman. I won't sing it. I could, but I won't. When a man loves a woman,
can't keep his mind on nothing else. He trade the world for the good thing he's
found. Can't keep his mind on nothing else. That's what an over-desire is. And
when you wake up in the morning, that's what you're thinking about, the thing
that is most important to you. It's your epithelia. When I was a kid, baseball
was my epithelia, my over-desire. I thought about it day and night. Even during
the winter, I had my baseball glove. I had this oil that you put on the glove,
and I put a softball in the glove, and I tied it up so that it would have a
good form and pocket in the spring when I took it out and started to play
again. Sometimes I took it out anyway, and I would bounce a ball off the
basement wall and drive my parents crazy. I just thought about it all the time.
I had baseball cards, I read magazines, I had a book on hitting by Ted
Williams. He was a good hitter, by the way, those of you who don't know. But
that was my over-desire. Now, I was a kid, it seems fairly innocent. But you
can have an over-desire as an adult that's not innocent. For some of you, it's
work. For some of you, it's romance or the lack thereof. For some of you, it's
family. For some of you, it's having well-behaved children. We've had six
children. They're not all always well-behaved. Some are almost never
well-behaved. But you see, if all my hope is in them, if all my desires, if
they are my idols, then I can't go on. One minister talked about people dying
and expressing their regrets. He said that nobody he's ever talked to who's on
their deathbed has ever said this, I wish I would have spent more time at work.
Or I wish I had made more money. What they do say are things like, I wish I
spent more time with my family, but even family can fail you. Some say I wish
I'd have been a better person. But there's an over-desire that can change you.
And it's described in 1 Peter, chapter one, verse 10. Verse 10, concerning this
salvation, the prophets who prophesied about the grace that was to be yours
searched and inquired carefully. Inquiring what person or time the Spirit of
Christ in them was indicating when he predicted the sufferings of Christ in the
subsequent glories. It was revealed to them that they were serving not
themselves, but you. And the things that you have now, have now been announced
to you through those who preach the good news to you by the Holy Spirit sent
from heaven, things into which angels long to look. That word long is
epithelia. The angels epithelia desire long to look at the gospel. Rarely is
the word used in a positive way, but it is here. Angels are thousands of years
old and not fallen. And they're smarter than all of us. And they're not bored
by the gospel. They're amazed by it. The word long is epithelia. It is the word
translated usually desire or even lust. It is rarely used in a positive way,
but here it is. So if you're a person and you say, you know, we need to get
beyond the gospel. We need to hear something besides the gospel. The gospel is
boring. That reminds me of a story about a rock star who was at the Louvre.
That's the famous museum in Paris. And they had the occasion to look at the
Mona Lisa. And he was looking at it and he said, huh, I don't see what the big
deal is. And the curator who was giving them the tour said, sir, the value of
this painting is long since been determined. What's on trial here is your
taste. I can say the same thing about anybody who says, oh, the gospel is
boring. We need to get beyond the gospel. Angels long to look. Angels epithelia
to look at the gospel, to look at every facet of it. They're amazed by it. And
that's how hearts are changed. By looking at the gospel, looking at Jesus, what
he has done for us, living in our place. He never had any inordinate desires
and being punished for our sins and raising again to new life. Look at him day
and night. First thing in the morning, last thing at night. Look at him, read
the gospels, look at Jesus. He will change your heart. Let's pray. Father,
thank you. Thank you for the gospel. Thank you that Jesus will change our
hearts. If we are wise enough to look at him. In his name we pray, amen.
Please.